Love your problems

Do you love your problems? It would be helpful, really 🙂 Problems are … difficulties, possibilities, opportunities A problem is a perceived gap between the actual state and a desired state. This may present itself as either a difficulty you face in life, or a...

Deviation and the norm

Do you want to be a norm? You want to be perfect. Balanced. Harmonious. Spotless. That is what you think you want. To follow the perfect dream. You want to have a great family. (Obviously, a great house and a car too.)You want an easy and smooth life.You want to make...

Have faith. Create trust.

This post is dedicated to Inge and Bob who taught me about trust.   Trust and faith are fundamental in our lives Trust opens you up and allows you to learn in a moment. Outside your comfort zone. Faith is a framework of your beliefs, in-flows and out-flows, approaches...

Why is change difficult?

Most people are afraid of conscious change. They would rather stay in their comfort zone than take steps into the unknown. As a result, life controls them. Things happen to them and they respond to the circumstances. They become reactive instead of proactive and they...

Going through and managing change

Let’s say you are making progress in spurts. You live comfortably from one day to another until you encounter a certain idea. Not an idea. A strong idea. Perhaps you read a book. Or you listen to the news. Perhaps you overhear a conversation in a bus. Or your...